All the Lonely People

 "The Lord God said, 'It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a suitable helper for him.'" Genesis 2:18

    The only thing I remember from my Ohio History class in high school, oddly, has nothing to do with our state's history. 

    Classrooms in the 1970s differ greatly from the technologically based learning of today so, consequently, it was a big deal when our teacher, Mr. K., brought in a record player one day. We all sat up a bit straighter, wondering what this could entail. He prefaced his lesson with a heart-to-heart talk that made a lasting impression on me. With kindness and compassion, he implored us to consider the kids who were on the fringes of our society, those who appeared lonely or friendless. Then, he played "Eleanor Rigby" by the Beatles, encouraging us to listen to the lyrics. There was an air of thoughtful consideration as we quietly absorbed the lesson.

    The writer of a recent editorial in our local paper reported that loneliness has become an epidemic in our country. The U. S. Surgeon General, Vivek Murthy, has listed loneliness among the top scourges of society such as cigarette smoking and obesity. Contributing factors could include financial problems, health limitations and social media. He is urging communities and individuals to spend time engaging with others, really listening to them. Put down the phone and go visit someone, in person. Evidently, the problem is a very serious one.

    Serious, yes, but certainly not new to mankind. God recognized loneliness in the first man ever created, Adam, which is one of the reasons why He ordained marriage between man and woman. "God sets the lonely in families." (Psalm 68:6)

    Today, I took a bike ride around the block. There's a wee cottage designed only for one; the man who dwells there was outside, so I paused to speak to him. The conversation began around the neighborhood cat we call Hobo before segueing to the problems in our country. The Lord opened a window of opportunity for me to speak of my faith, and I was delighted when the neighbor shared his favorite Bible passages with me in return. 

    Though I am blessed with many loving friends and family members nearby, not everyone is. The exchange between the neighbor and I didn't last long, but the effects of the friendly conversation could last even longer. 

"Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up." Ecclesiastes 4: 9, 10